Hello my dear readers, welcome to another blog…. today my blog title expresses more than what I have to say. This blog is a love letter, ripping off a band aid, or applying ointment to my wounds…. how many metaphors do I talk about? I believe I will always have another one to say. My […]
How do you not get attached?
Attachment. A single word. But it holds so many things. Nowadays I keep hearing about detachment. You scroll through reels and there they are, tips and tricks on how to be detached, how to keep people at a distance, how to protect yourself by simply… caring less. And as a person, I genuinely cannot understand […]
Living Inside Our Own Heads.
To begin with, I want to ask you something, my dear readers.When someone dislikes you, what do you instantly think? Is it that the person doesn’t like you because you have a particular flaw? Or do you think there might be their own reason, something completely unrelated to you, and that is why they don’t […]
Ten Years Ago I Never Imagined This.
I picked up the pen twice this week thinking I would write something. Both times, nothing came. Not because there was nothing to say, but because I think I am still recovering from my trip to Albania. Still somewhere in between the version of me that left and the version that came back. So let […]
Are you dumb?
Are you dumb? Yes, you read it right. How many times do you think this to yourself or tell others….are you dumb? Or be like… how do you not know this, I thought you were smarter than that.Someone asked me something recently and I could not stop thinking about it. Not because it was deep […]
Same Struggles, Different Stories…
Well! Spring is here and the days are getting longer.I love being out, walking, and capturing sunsets…. there is something about that light at the end of the day that just makes you stop and feel things. I was recently on a call with my mum while out on one of these walks, and we […]
Chapters I chose to close!
One thing life quietly teaches you, sometimes gently and sometimes painfully, is that not every chapter is meant to last forever. Some chapters end loudly…. with arguments, tears, and unanswered questions. Others close quietly, almost unnoticed, until one day you realise that a person, a place, or even a version of yourself is no longer […]
The Art of Being Disliked.
Happy International Women’s Day to my readers. As we celebrate the empowerment of women, I have realised something: if you are ambitious, a dreamer, an achiever, and someone who wants more from life, you must also learn to be comfortable being disliked. People’s opinions are often just noise….not your reality. When I was in school, […]
You Doubt Your Own Potential
How many times have you tried to step into something that could make you grow, make you better, make you feel alive… and then suddenly you spiral? The what ifs start.What if it does not work?What if I am not ready?What if I fail? I strongly believe something… whenever you try to move out of […]
The Nonchalant Era
Heyyy, how are you all doing? We are in that time of the year where everywhere you step, you see love in the air. And trust me, there is nothing wrong with that. But something always makes me wonder — is Valentine’s Day and this entire week a business gimmick, or is it really about […]